The idea of travelling with kids is designed to bring on feelings of abject terror in any parent, no matter how good you think your kids are, you just know that there's a very good chance they may totally lose it cooped up in such a claustrophobic environment for hours, and sometimes days, on end.
However, when I went back and read Simone's post before we departed on our trip, I was hugely encouraged that it doesn't HAVE to be that way. That there's actually a very good chance you could get to the other end having not just survived but actually thrived and come out the other end smiling.
Let's hear how she does it:
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Greatfun4kids: 10 Tips for Surviving Travel with Kids
One of the benefits of being married to a foreigner is that Travel comes with the deal - and I love to Travel. Of course, traveling with kids is very different to traveling without them.
Firstly, there's not a chance in Hades you'll ever get upgraded to Business Class no matter how nattily you dress.
Secondly, there's the prospect of enduring hours and hours trapped in a flying metal tube with screaming kids, while the rest of the Cattle Class population glares, mutters and comments on your poor parenting skills.
But there are ways to endure.
Ways to survive travelling with kids, long haul, even.
Ways to ensure you receive compliments from your fellow passengers as you disembark. People who cringed when they saw you arrive with kids in tow; people who were wishing they'd booked the earlier flight or the other seats are now are truly impressed by the behaviour and stamina of your travel-savvy offspring.
"Dearie, your children were wonderful! Really, they were no bother - no bother at all. Full credit to you, dear..."
Oh yes. Wouldn't that be nice??
In fact there are some things you can do that might actually allow you to enjoy the journey.
Here are my Top Ten Tips on...
1. Prepare, prepare, prepare.
Every time I travel, whether long or short-haul, I prepare a carry-on bag for each of my children.
I make a mental list of all the things that could go wrong on the flight - drinks spilled, vomit, boredom, sore ears, "accidents"... and I make sure that I cover all my bases. That child's carry-on bag is your survival kit.
Into each child's bag I put...
- non-messy activities {new books, coloured pencils, notepads etc}
- yummy snacks {for between meals, nothing worse than a hungry whiner}
- an empty water bottle {fill it up after you get through security}
- a change of clothes and underwear* {need I explain why}
- favourite small toys {and maybe a new one}
- Pyjamas {if traveling long haul}
- Toothbrush
- Mini tissues
- Lollipops {for sucking during takeoff and landing}
Into my carry-on bag I put:
- treats a.k.a. bribes {essential items for ensuring peace & cooperation}
- wet wipes
- extra tissues
- extra spare children's clothes*
- clean top for me*
- a book {just in case I actually get some peace}
- and all the other things you usually put in your travel bag {toothbrush, hand cream, breath mints - aerosols, liquids & gels in a clear zip-lock bag, no more than 100ml each of course!}
2. Realistic Expectations
Don't expect to eat your meals in peace. Expect to be juggling five meals on four trays. Expect spillages. Don't expect to watch a whole movie in peace. Don't expect to finish your book. Don't expect to read the paper as if you are young, free and single. Chances are you won't.
Don't expect to sleep.
And you might not want to indulge too freely on the complimentary alcohol - you'll need your wits about you.
Expect to spend the next 30 hours simply surviving - anything else is a bonus.
You never know - all your hard work preparing could pay off and you may be pleasantly surprised. But if not... at least you're prepared for the worst!
3. The Bag Itself
Choice of carry-on bags is very important and can make the difference between transit nightmares or dreams come true. We learnt this the hard way.
The last time we traveled long-haul with the kids {two years ago} I bought the older two new backpacks and filled them with everything I thought they might need. Dash was fine carrying his backpack. A strong independent traveler since babyhood, he was proud to do his bit.
But Miss Fab got tired carrying hers. She offloaded her bag to poor daddy, who was also carrying Scrag, his own bag and ended up resembling a packhorse. But that's not the worst of it. We got onto the plane in Dubai, and began to stow the bags. Miss Fab's hands were empty.
"Where's your bag???" we demanded.
"Oh I got tired of carrying it and left it in the {departure} lounge..."
Arrrggghhh!
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Luckily they hadn't closed the aircraft doors yet, Mr G was able to elicit the assistance of some helpful cabin crew who ran back and found Miss Fab's pink backpack right where she left it.
Luckily no-one saw the abandoned bag and called the Bomb Squad. Luckily.
One you pull along, like a puppy on a lead, and if your legs get tired, you can sit on it and your daddy can pull you. Fab.
So this trip, we'll be taking Trunki. And Scrag has his special Toy Story bag on wheels that he can trundle along. And hopefully we will get through with no more Bag Drama.
{Note: Trunki meets all the in-flight luggage specs and has won lots of design awards}
{Note: Trunki meets all the in-flight luggage specs and has won lots of design awards}
4. Beware Tired Legs
Airports are often huge and we end up having to walk long distances between terminals, or to Gate Lounges. Also, there's the queuing. Check-in, Passport Control, Security, Boarding.
The smartest thing we ever did was get a MacPac baby carrier, when Dash was a baby and we first took him to the UK. We got one that had a built in stand and extra storage. He was up high riding on daddy's back, seeing the world; we could feed him sitting in it and when he was being carried, it left our hands free.
Best of all we could take it with us right onto the plane and stow it in the overhead lockers. If you take a stroller, they will take it off you at the door to the aircraft and stow it with the baggage. You won't get it back until Baggage Claim.
So go the backpack route, OK? Its worth the investment.
Best of all we could take it with us right onto the plane and stow it in the overhead lockers. If you take a stroller, they will take it off you at the door to the aircraft and stow it with the baggage. You won't get it back until Baggage Claim.
So go the backpack route, OK? Its worth the investment.
For the older kids seriously consider investing in a Trunki, or similar. They are sturdy, and can be sat on and ridden when legs get tired. Our kids take turns sitting on Trunki and pulling Trunki is a novelty.
Nothing worse than tired legs and moaning kids when your hands are full and you're running for the plane.
And if worst comes to worst... there's always the baggage trolleys...
5. Service With a Smile
Not all airlines are created equal when it comes to kids. We have travelled with a number of different airlines, long and short-haul, and here's our ranking...
1. Emirates
2. Thai
3. Air New Zealand
4. British Airways
What a difference when you travel with an airline where the cabin crew like kids. Where they don't act as if you are imposing when you ring for assistance. When the kids meals are fantastic. When the movie selection and personal entertainment centres are awesome and engaging. When crew go the extra mile to help your kids have a great flight.
Like bringing them toys and kids packs before takeoff. Like coming around with a Polaroid camera to take photos of them for you to keep. That's why when we go long haul, we fly Emirates. They go the extra mile.
{**Singapore Airlines are meant to be very good too, but we have yet to fly with them}
6. Use Bribery
Keep your supply of treats handy. Once the seat belt sign comes off, move your bag close to you for easy access. If the kids get twitchy or start bouncing on the seat and pulling faces at the passengers behind you, bribe them. If they start running up and down the aisles or singing at the top of their lungs, crying, whingeing, wrestling, fighting... bribery will help.
"Sit down quietly for the next fifteen minutes and you can have a treat..."
{Beware too much sugar... you might want to get a few $2 shop toys to hide away and pull out when needed as well as some savory treats}
7. Sedate, Medicate, Celebrate
Seriously. When planning a long haul flight with kids it is worth visiting your doctor and asking for a prescription for something to help the kids sleep. Phenergan is the most common one, but that particular medicine makes my kids hyper. You might just want to test it before the flight...?
Seriously. When planning a long haul flight with kids it is worth visiting your doctor and asking for a prescription for something to help the kids sleep. Phenergan is the most common one, but that particular medicine makes my kids hyper. You might just want to test it before the flight...?
{We found out the hard way, but thankfully it wasn't on a flight}
Vallergan is the one my Doc gave me last time.
I tested it on Scrag and within 40 minutes he was walking like a drunken sailor and then conked out and slept for 4 hours. Bingo!
I used the weight guide to figure out doses for the older two, and after our first 3-hour leg to Melbourne, I got them in their PJ's, and gave them their medicine before we got back on the plane for our 17-hour leg to Dubai. Yes. You heard me. A 17-hour leg.
After the meals had been around, the kids all fell asleep. And slept for 11 hours. Wahoo!!!
By that stage there was only four hours left. Four hours playing video games and watching movies on demand. So do-able.
I got so many compliments getting off that plane at Dubai....
**Warning. Make sure the children take the medicine after food i.e. on a full stomach. Dash didn't eat his plane dinner and when he woke up after his 11-hour sleep, he vomited some strawberry milk all over the seat in front. Not really recommended, but at least he mostly missed the passenger.... So this time, we'll be making sure dash eats his tea before we give him the medicine!**
8. Time Zone Tricks
When I travel long haul with the kids, I leave my watch on New Zealand time. Why? Because then i know what time my kids body-clocks think it is. There's no point expecting them sleep when its lunch time in New Zealand.
But as our flight to England leaves Auckland at 5pm, I know that by the time we get to Melbourne Airport it will be 8pm NZ Time. Bedtime. Time to get PJs on and complete the bedtime routine. Time to give them medicine to help them sleep deeply.
When we arrive at the destination {thirty hours later} I change to local time. And then we stay awake until its bedtime at the new time. This really helps with reducing jet-lag. No sleeping before 6pm local time.
But as our flight to England leaves Auckland at 5pm, I know that by the time we get to Melbourne Airport it will be 8pm NZ Time. Bedtime. Time to get PJs on and complete the bedtime routine. Time to give them medicine to help them sleep deeply.
When we arrive at the destination {thirty hours later} I change to local time. And then we stay awake until its bedtime at the new time. This really helps with reducing jet-lag. No sleeping before 6pm local time.
9. Seating Arrangements
How uncomfortable is it sleeping on a plane? Some people can't do it at all. I can but Mr G can't.
When you're travelling with kids you have an advantage of a little bit of extra elbow room if you are smart.
So how you configure your seats can really help with comfort... and reduce the annoyance factor of: "Muuuum, can you put this game on for meeee...??"
"Muuuuum, I can't get the movie to go...."
Sit adult-kid-adult-kid.
Extra room for you, extra help for them and their Entertainment console.
No fighting and shoving.
Yep, a winner all round.
Sometimes this doesn't work.
Like the last time we went to the UK, Scrag was under two, so traveled free, but didn't get his own seat.
He was too big for the bassinet and they go first-come, first-served, youngest babies first.
So we had five people (including wriggly toddler Scrag) on four seats. For 30 hours.
Oh yes.
And we survived!
We finally figured out the best arrangement on the way back.
Adults on the ends, kids in the middle.
Adults on the ends, kids in the middle.
Three little bottoms fit very nicely into two seats if you put the arm rests up.
Oh yeah, that's the key to comfort: Arm rests up.
10. Move It
Kids find it hard to keep still for such a long time. They need to move.
So when you are in the transit lounges, let them move. Let them sprawl on the (grubby) floor (which is why you bring spare clothes); let them ride the escalators and elevators.
Wait until the last minute before you get on board. The plane's not going anywhere without you... let the kids run around while they can. They'll be in those seats for a long time - plus it'll save on all that queuing!
When you're on board, find other kids.
My kids made friends in flight. they did some seat swapping for a bit. Dash found a buddy and his sister visited Miss Fab. And Daddy took Scrag walking the aisles. Hero daddy.
They found another toddler. They played peekaboo.
There was plenty of visiting the bathroom and entertaining the people behind us with cheeky grins.
We were lucky. Apparently they found Scrag charming.
Phew.
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So. That's my list for surviving long haul travel with a bunch of wriggly kidlets.
I was pleasantly surprised at how the trip went last time we flew long haul. I was expecting thirty hours of living hell. But it was OK. The kids were great and completely surpassed our expectations - to the delight of our fellow passengers.
If we can do it with our crazy bunch, five of us crammed into four seats for thirty hours... you can too!
Some airports are more kid-friendly than others. Some ground staff will kindly usher you to the express queue or allow you to board first if they see you travelling with little ones. Don't be afraid to ask for help.
For the Lucky Ones travelling Kid-Free...
If you are travelling without kids and see someone struggling with theirs...?
If you are travelling without kids and see someone struggling with theirs...?
Please offer assistance. Take a bag. Carry a child. Smile and play peekaboo.
Your kindness will make all the difference to harried and stressed parents.
Because after all, you have the luxury of putting on your earphones and turning up the volume to drown out their crying... the exhausted parents are the ones who have to figure out how to calm their little ones down, when their ears hurt from cabin pressure, when they're overtired from lack of sleep or frustrated from having to sit still.
So dear childless travelers... go easy on those of travelling with little ones and don't judge us too harshly.
So dear childless travelers... go easy on those of travelling with little ones and don't judge us too harshly.
Travel with Kids: Its not easy... but it is do-able (and worth it).
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Thanks Simone for sharing your wealth of travel wisdom with us - you certainly helped this mama sleep a little easier before the big day having some practical advice to focus my pre-trip planning on!
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Simone is a creative genius, storyteller and mama of 3 who blogs over at Greatfun4kids. You can also follow her on Instagram @greatfun4kids or on Facebook: Greatfun4kids.Do pop on over and say hi!
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